Two weeks exploring California with a 4-year-old and a toddler — a full loop from San Francisco to Los Angeles, packed with family-friendly activities, honest tips, and real-life experiences.
California is huge. The highlights are endless. Trying to fit it all into a family-friendly two-week trip can feel overwhelming. After completing our own loop with two young kids, I’ve created this detailed guide blending what we actually did, what worked, and the tips I wish I’d known beforehand.
This itinerary mixes city life, national parks, beaches, and a theme park — with built-in “kid resets” like playgrounds, short walks, and downtime.
If you want deeper dives into each stop, check out my other California blog posts — this guide is your one-stop, practical roadmap.
California Road Trip Overview
Duration: 14 days
Route: San Francisco → Yosemite → Monterey → San Luis Obispo (SLO) → Anaheim (Disneyland) → Los Angeles → Venice Beach
Ideal for: Families with kids aged 1–10
Why this route works:
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Big variety (city → mountains → coast → theme park → city)
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Manageable daily drives
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Mix of outdoor time and easy wins for little legs
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Loads of built-in “kid reset” activities (playgrounds, beaches, short walks)
Practical Tips Before You Go
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Car Seats: Our hire car seats had zero padding — not ideal for long drives. Next time, we’d bring or buy basic padded boosters/stage seats.
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When to Collect the Hire Car: Parking at Fisherman’s Wharf is expensive. We arranged to collect our car the morning we left San Francisco and pre-sorted the paperwork — this saved a full day’s hotel parking and made checkout stress-free.
- The Big California Myth: It’s not always sunny! Morning fog is common along the coast and can obscure views at places like Bixby Bridge and Carmel Beach.
- Timing: Summer is busy but sunny; spring and fall offer milder weather and fewer crowds.
- Packing Essentials: Layers, hats, sunscreen, snacks, refillable water bottles, and a stroller for little legs
Quick Highlights at a Glance (What the Kids Loved Most)
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Open-top bus across the Golden Gate Bridge (“hold your hats!”)
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Outpost Playground — sand + water heaven
- Tenaya Lake - an absolute yem of a place!
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Monterey Bay Aquarium — could have stayed all day
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Casa de Fruta train and carousel
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Oceano Sand Dunes — epic sand climbs
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Disneyland’s “It’s a Small World” (×3 rides!)
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Chickens + trampoline at the SLO Airbnb
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Venice Beach skate park + boardwalk energy
The Full Day-by-Day California Road Trip Itinerary
Day 1–3: San Francisco
Base: Hotel Zephyr, Fisherman’s Wharf
We kicked off our California adventure in San Francisco and couldn’t have picked a better base than Hotel Zephyr. Honestly, this place was a little gem for families. The courtyard is basically a kid magnet — full of games, firepits, and comfy seating areas. It’s like a built-in playground, which meant that after a long day exploring the city, the kids could still burn off energy while we relaxed with a coffee. We ended up hanging out here every single day, and it really became our little home away from home in the city.
Make sure you check out my blog post on all the family friendly things to do in San Francisco.
Hop-On Hop-Off Bus
With two little ones, sightseeing on foot can be… ambitious. So, the Hop-On Hop-Off bus was our saving grace. It allowed us to cover lots of ground without exhausting tiny legs, and we could hop off whenever the kids needed a stretch or a snack.
Some of our highlights:
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Painted Ladies + small playground: The classic row of colourful Victorian houses is, of course, iconic. But the playground right nearby was a lifesaver for us. By the time we got here, the kids were getting a bit restless on the bus, and having a space to run around for twenty minutes was perfect.
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Golden Gate Park: I took our eldest to the Japanese Tea Garden, which he absolutely loved — the little bridge there is steep, and he was so proud of himself for climbing it like a little adventurer. Meanwhile, our youngest snoozed happily in the pushchair while we wandered around the park. It was such a peaceful, magical little slice of the city.
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Golden Gate Bridge crossing: Oh, the bridge. Nothing prepares you for it — the wind, the size, the views. It’s truly iconic. And, in one of those parent-life moments, my youngest stayed asleep on me through the entire crossing while we held on tight to our hats as the gusts blew past. I like to think that one day he’ll remember it in his dreams!
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Outpost Playground: This playground is fairly new and absolutely massive, with sand, water features, and a great view of the Golden Gate Bridge. It was an instant hit — you could have dragged the kids away kicking and screaming if you’d tried. I would highly recommend this stop if you have kids who love to splash and climb.
Fisherman’s Wharf & Pier 39
In the afternoons, we wandered along Fisherman’s Wharf and Pier 39. The sea lions lounging on the docks were hilarious and fascinating for the kids — their barking and flopping about never failed to make us laugh. There are plenty of little shops to browse (and snack on sourdough if you like) and a few family-friendly dinner options. We had dinner at Fog Harbor Fish House — the views of the bay are stunning, but the food, honestly, was a little underwhelming. Definitely a place you go more for the location than the cuisine, but it worked for a casual family meal.
Cable Cars
A genuine highlight for our children — and for us too, if I’m honest. Seeing the kids’ faces light up as the car swung onto the turntable and spun around at the bottom of the hill was priceless. There’s just something so whimsical and fun about San Francisco’s historic cable cars, and this is an experience you cannot miss.
Ghirardelli Square
This is a quick, easy stop that’s perfect for families. A short wander around the square, some chocolate or ice cream treats, and you’re done. It’s one of those “small wins” that makes a day feel complete without wearing out the little ones.
Car Collection Trick
If you’re renting a car, here’s a little tip we wish we’d known sooner: We sorted all the paperwork on Day 3, but left the car in the rental garage until the morning we were ready to leave San Francisco. This avoided paying the ridiculously expensive hotel parking fees and made our checkout super smooth. For families, this is a small hack that saves a lot of stress — and a lot of money.
Day 4–7: Yosemite National Park
Bases: Yosemite Valley Lodge (3 nights) and Tenaya Lodge (1 night)
Our first taste of Yosemite was nothing short of magical. Staying inside the park at Yosemite Valley Lodge was a game-changer — no long drives in and out, which is a blessing when you have toddlers. We literally walked to most of the main sights, and the views from the lodge made waking up each morning feel like stepping into a postcard.
I've got a whole dedicated page to Yosemite so make sure you check it out here for tonnes more insightful information.
Day 4: Arrival and Easy Exploration
After collecting our rental car, we stocked up on snacks and essentials at Walmart (because you can never have too many snacks with little ones!). On the way to the lodge, we stopped at Caffe Dolce Vita in Groveland for paninis — seriously delicious!
Once we settled in, we took a short stroll to Lower Yosemite Falls. It’s stroller-friendly, which meant our youngest could nap while the eldest toddled along proudly. Dinner was at Base Camp Eatery, the lodge’s family-friendly eatery — nothing fancy, but reliable and easy, which is exactly what you need after a day of travel.
Day 5: Cook’s Meadow Loop + Bikes
We started the day with the Cook’s Meadow Loop, an easy, flat walk perfect for little legs. Deer were grazing nearby, and we stopped at Sentinel Bridge for breathtaking views of Half Dome. Later, we rented bikes and explored the Valley Floor — one of the best ways to see Yosemite with kids. We cycled to Mirror Lake, took little breaks at meadows and riversides, and soaked in the fresh mountain air. In the afternoon, we hopped on the shuttle to El Capitan Meadow, where you can spot climbers scaling the massive rock face — the kids were fascinated!
Day 6: Tioga Road Adventure
We ventured along Tioga Road, stopping at Olmsted Point for panoramic views and then Tenaya Lake, which turned out to be an unexpected highlight. The kids paddled happily in the crystal-clear water while we had a picnic — it felt so peaceful and remote, a real “California dream” moment. Later, we tackled a portion of the Mist Trail to Vernal Falls. It’s a steady uphill climb, but with plenty of breaks and a slow pace, it was completely doable with our little ones. Dinner that evening was casual at the Curry Village taco stand — quick, informal, and kid-approved.
Day 7: Iconic Views and a Resort-Style Evening
Early morning at Tunnel View was surreal — the valley, the cliffs, the light… unforgettable. Then we headed to Glacier Point, which offers sweeping vistas that make you stop in your tracks. Afterwards, we visited Mariposa Grove to marvel at the giant sequoias; the kids were fascinated by these massive trees that make humans feel tiny in the best way.
That afternoon, we checked into Tenaya Lodge, which is more resort-style than Yosemite Valley Lodge. Pools, arcade games, and open spaces — exactly what we needed for some downtime. Dinner at Jackalopes was hands-down the best meal of our trip, a little indulgence that felt well-earned.
Day 8–9: Monterey
Base: Stargazer Inn
The drive from Yosemite to Monterey included a stop at Casa de Fruta, and I have to admit, we weren’t sure what to expect. I had read a few mentions online, but nothing really prepared us for how much fun this place would turn out to be for the kids. It was a mini wonderland, bursting with surprises around every corner.
Casa de Fruta Highlights:
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Casa de Choo Choo train – A small, charming train that loops around the property. Our kids could not get enough of it; the joy on their faces as the whistle blew and the train chugged along was pure magic.
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Carousel and playground – Perfect for letting little legs run off energy after the car ride. Spinning horses, slides, and open space kept them entertained while we enjoyed a coffee nearby.
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Peacocks roaming freely – Our kids were fascinated, following them around and laughing as they strutted past with their tail feathers fanned out.
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Fruit market – Packed with fresh produce, jams, dried snacks, and even wine tasting for the adults. A little slice of California for grown-ups while the kids explored.
We could have spent hours here, but Monterey awaited!
Monterey Bay Aquarium
Once in Monterey, our first stop — and the highlight for the kids — was the Monterey Bay Aquarium. This is one of those places where you could genuinely spend the entire day and still feel like you’ve only scratched the surface.
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Sea Otters – Playful and mischievous, these little creatures were a constant source of delight.
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Jellyfish tanks – Mesmerizing, with their slow, graceful movements and otherworldly glow.
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Main exhibits – Massive tanks teeming with fish of every color. Even as adults, we were struck by the sheer scale and beauty of the underwater world.
The aquarium is incredibly family-friendly:
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Interactive exhibits
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Kid-friendly information boards
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Touch pools where children can gently handle starfish and other sea creatures
Our eldest loved spotting species in the open ocean exhibit, while our youngest toddled happily from tank to tank, occasionally pressing tiny hands against the glass in wonder. We left with sticky fingers from snacks and salty popcorn, exhausted in the best possible way. For anyone planning a visit, I’ve written a full blog post on visiting the aquarium.
Afternoon: 17-Mile Drive & Carmel Beach
In the afternoon, we drove along the 17-Mile Drive, a classic coastal route with stunning vistas. California’s infamous morning fog partially obscured the views, giving the coastline a mysterious, ethereal feel. We stopped along the way for photos, quick stretches, and to take in the rugged cliffs, cypress trees, and crashing waves.
Finally, we made a brief stop at Carmel Beach, a quaint, picturesque beach in the little town of Carmel-by-the-Sea. Even in the mist, it had a storybook charm — soft sand, tiny waves, and cottages peeking through the fog. The kids loved running around, collecting shells, and chasing seagulls, while we soaked in the serene atmosphere before heading back to our base at Stargazer Inn, perfectly located to explore more of Monterey the next day.
Day 10–11: Big Sur & San Luis Obispo
Base: Countryside Airbnb, San Luis Obispo
Day 10: Big Sur Adventure
We kicked off Day 10 with an early morning visit to Point Lobos State Reserve, arriving as soon as the parking lot opened. Pro tip: it fills up fast, so getting there early is worth it if you want a peaceful start and some prime photo spots. The kids were full of energy, and the trails were manageable for little legs, with stunning views of the rugged coastline and turquoise waters that made every step worth it.
After exploring Point Lobos, we drove along the Big Sur coast, one of the most scenic drives in the world. Unfortunately, a landslide closure prevented us from going further south, and Bixby Bridge was shrouded in typical California fog — so no postcard-perfect shots this time! But even through the mist, the experience of winding along the cliffs, feeling the ocean breeze, and watching the waves crash below was incredible and unforgettable.
By the evening, we arrived at our countryside Airbnb in San Luis Obispo, and it instantly became a favorite stop for the kids. The property had ample land to run around, chickens to feed, and a trampoline to bounce on — basically a little slice of outdoor paradise after a long drive. For dinner, we cooked homemade pasta, which was the first “home-cooked” meal of the trip and felt so cozy after several nights on the road. The kids were delighted to eat together at our little table while the sun set over the countryside.
Day 11: Pismo Beach & Surrounding Area
We dedicated Day 11 to exploring Pismo Beach and nearby attractions, balancing active fun with coastal relaxation:
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Dinosaur Caves Playground – This oceanfront playground was a hit with the kids. Slides, climbing frames, and panoramic views of the Pacific made it a perfect morning stop. The kids could run freely while we sipped coffee and took in the waves crashing nearby.
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Oceano Sand Dunes – Climbing the steep hills of sand was exhausting but exhilarating. Our kids loved the challenge, and it was incredible to watch them conquer the dunes with such enthusiasm. Bring water and snacks — little legs tire quickly!
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Pismo Beach Pier – We finished the afternoon here with ice creams in hand, watching the surfers and letting the kids run along the sand. The combination of the salty air, the sound of the waves, and kids’ laughter made it one of those perfect, simple family moments.
Dinner was at Wooly’s, right by the beach, which offered casual, delicious food and the added bonus of sitting with views of the ocean. Watching the sunset over the pier while the kids recounted their day was the perfect way to end our Big Sur and San Luis Obispo adventure.
Day 12–13: Anaheim & Disneyland
Base: Desert Inn & Suites, Anaheim
We set off from San Luis Obispo along the scenic California coast, stopping for lunch in Santa Barbara — a charming city with palm-lined streets and plenty of kid-friendly cafés. Further south, we paused at Santa Monica Pier, letting the kids stretch their legs and take in the ocean views.
Pro tip: avoid Google’s suggested “shortcut” down steep mountain roads — instead, take Rice Avenue, a flatter coastal route that keeps you on the scenic road longer and is much safer with little ones.
Disneyland Park
Ah, Disneyland — not typically our usual travel vibe, but when in Anaheim, it’s almost mandatory! This was a huge hit for the kids, and honestly, even we adults got caught up in the magic.
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“It’s a Small World” ×3 – Our eldest was so enchanted, he insisted on riding it three times in a row!
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Lightning Lane – An absolute lifesaver for reducing waiting times on rides, especially with small children.
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Stroller hire – We rented a stroller for the eldest for $18. Having a place for the toddler to nap and a spot to store bags made the day much easier.
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Hotel proximity – Staying just across the street at Desert Inn & Suites meant we could walk back for mid-day breaks, which felt like a huge bonus.
Evening tip: tag-team with your partner! While one of us rested with the kids at the hotel, the other went back into the park to experience rides and the parade. It’s a great way to fit in extra magic without wearing everyone out.
Also check out my separate guide on how to tackle Disneyland with toddlers!
Day 14–15: Los Angeles & Venice Beach
Base: Hotel Erwin, Venice Beach
Los Angeles Highlights
We started the day at Griffith Observatory, which offers stunning views of both Los Angeles and the Hollywood Sign. Even with kids in tow, the wide open spaces and telescopes made it manageable and fun.
Next, we strolled along the Hollywood Walk of Fame, spotting famous stars and enjoying the street performers. Lunch was at Hard Rock Café, which is casual and family-friendly, perfect for a midday refuel.
We then drove through Beverly Hills and Rodeo Drive, admiring the luxury stores and perfectly manicured streets, before heading to The Grove and Original Farmers Market for a relaxed shopping and snack stop.
Venice Beach
Our final stop was Venice Beach, which perfectly summed up the energy, color, and chaos of California. The kids loved the skate park and playgrounds, while we soaked in the boardwalk vibes — street performers, eclectic shops, and the ocean breeze.
Departure Day
We spent our last morning wandering Venice Beach, letting the kids run free one final time. After checking out, we returned the rental car at LAX and reflected on an unforgettable two-week adventure.
Why This Works for Families
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Mixes busy city-days + nature + relaxed stays — so you’re not constantly “on”.
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Kept in mind toddlers’ pace: shorter drives, built-in rest days, freedom to wander.
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Accommodation choices that suit little legs and big ones: comfortable hotels + a countryside Airbnb.
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Prioritised memorable experiences (bridges, coastlines, nature, theme parks) that kids will actually remember — and parents will love.
Where We Stayed
Hotel Zephyr, San Francisco
Our journey began in San Francisco, where we stayed at Hotel Zephyr. The hotel's nautical theme and family-friendly amenities made it a hit with our kids. Located near Fisherman's Wharf, it offered easy access to attractions like Pier 39 and Ghirardelli Square.
Yosemite Valley Lodge, Yosemite National Park
Staying inside Yosemite National Park was a dream come true. Yosemite Valley Lodge provided breathtaking views of the falls and convenient access to trails suitable for young children. Early morning walks and evening wildlife sightings were highlights.
Tenaya Lodge, Fish Camp
For a change of pace, we spent one night at Tenaya Lodge in Fish Camp. The lodge offered a more resort-like experience with amenities like an indoor pool and spa, perfect for relaxing after a day of hiking.
Stargazer Inn & Suites, Monterey
In Monterey, we stayed at Stargazer Inn & Suites. The hotel (motel) was comfortable and well-located, making it easy to explore the Monterey Bay Aquarium and nearby beaches which were a short drive away.
Airbnb near San Luis Obispo
Seeking a quieter retreat, we booked an Airbnb in the countryside near San Luis Obispo. The property provided a peaceful setting with ample space for the kids to play and explore. You can find the link to it here.
Anaheim Desert Inn & Suites, Anaheim
Our Disneyland adventure began with a stay at Anaheim Desert Inn & Suites. The hotel's proximity to the park allowed us to maximize our time at the happiest place on earth.
Hotel Erwin, Venice Beach
Concluding our trip, we stayed at Hotel Erwin in Venice Beach. The hotel's rooftop lounge offered stunning ocean views, and the beach was just steps away, providing the perfect end to our Californian journey.
Tips for Traveling California with Kids
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Timing: California has wildly varying weather. Summer’s perfect for coast + national parks but expect big crowds. Spring or fall = milder weather + fewer people.
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Transport: Renting a car is essential for flexibility. If you can, go for something spacious — you’ll thank yourself when all the gear + kids + snacks come into play.
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Accommodation: A mix works well — hotels for convenience, an Airbnb for a change of pace.
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Packing: Bring layers, hats, sunscreen and snacks. One minute you’re on the coast, the next mountain air is biting.
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Activities: Balance sightseeing days with down-time. National parks are incredible, but little ones need breaks too — so plan accordingly.
California truly has something for every kind of family traveller, and this two-week itinerary is a perfect blend of adventure, relaxation, and magical moments. Whether you’re hiking in Yosemite, cruising the Pacific Coast Highway, or making memories at Disneyland, your California road trip will be unforgettable.
Ways to Adapt & Extend the Trip
Because the best thing about a California road trip is it’s endlessly flexible:
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Extend Yosemite: If you love nature and hiking, add a couple more days in Yosemite to explore deeper.
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Northern California Option: Start in the Bay Area and head north to Napa/Sonoma wine country (family-friendly vineyard tours exist) or visit Muir Woods National Monument for giant redwoods.
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More Coastline: If you want more beach and scenic roads, add in stops like Carmel-by-the-Sea, Hearst Castle and Morro Bay.
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Southern California Focus: If your timing is winter (or you prefer milder weather), spend more days in LA, Orange County and perhaps San Diego (LEGOLAND/Aquarium etc).
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City-Bias: Prefer urban trips? Skip some nature days and instead dive deeper into San Fran, LA and San Diego for kid-friendly museums, aquariums and cultural spots.
The Million Dollar Question - Budget
Being a true yorkshire woman I do like to know I've got a good deal - which is why I spend an inordinate amount of time finding those deals! In terms of our style of travel we tend to mix things up with some budget spend in places so we can splash out on others - overall trying to land somewhere in the middle. Here is breakdown of our total spend for the holiday (2 adults, 3 year old and a 1 year old):
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Accommodation (14 nights): £3,000 (and 47p) - we made sure we used member deals on sites like booking.com and hotels.com plus used TopCashback a lot!
- Car Rental - £500 - we used budget cars and had a car for 12 nights plus two car seats. We had requested a mid range SUV but they only had a full size and they honoured our price (in hindsight I should have ordered the bigger car as it was SO useful with the kids and STUFF). I would in future maybe buy a car seat rather than rent one as the quality was poor and the kids were uncomfortable.
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Disney tickets: £500 - This was for one day including lightning lane for 2 adults and 1 child (the youngest was free). It's expensive but we loved this day!
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Food and other activities - £2,300 - California isn't cheap but we were actually pleasantly surpised with our spend. We ate out every evening but cut costs by having cereal in our room for breakfast (every hotel room has a fridge) and packed up lunch and snacks for the kids and we just grabbed stuff on the go for lunch. Activities included an open top bus in San Fran and Monterey Bay Aquarium which were (apart from Disneyland) the most expensive activities.
Total cost for a family of four for two weeks mid range budget (excluding flights): £6,300
These figures are based on our experiences and may vary depending on travel dates, preferences, and unforeseen expenses.
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